Wednesday, September 11, 2013
What About Syria?
Personal, private, emotional reactions to world events vary greatly of course. Some folks are moved and distracted, some are grateful for their own circumstances in comparison, some are afraid, compassionate, annoyed, outraged, some all of the above at any given moment. But we still have to live our lives in our own routines. We have our own worlds to contend with, to take care of and to function in.
What do we do with our own world in the context of the bigger world picture? Is there anything we can do that is useful to both?
I'm thinking yes, of course. Because how we react to world events shapes us. Most of us have mixed motives for most of the decisions we make. Sometimes we are selfish, or self protective, sometimes generous, giving. Whether our actions are driven at any given time by our feelings, our beliefs or our thinking, we and others are shaped by the choices we make.
And this is where I think we can combine our efforts for both a better inner world, a better outer world and a better world for everyone. And too, for those in emotional pain, get some relief:
We can give charity (does not have to be big amounts, it all helps)
(check this out)
We can give time (just a little counts)
We can say something kind to someone.
We can work on our own pain.
We can be sensitive to the pain of others.
We can give someone the benefit of the doubt.
We can get curious before we get hurt.
We can smile at someone, compliment them, ask about their day.
We can sit quietly and send good vibes into the universe, or pray, or say a short meditation.
We can give someone our blessing, our good wishes or our attentive compassionate ears.
I'm not saying we are going to bring world peace by working on inner peace or peace in our worlds. But I think it's a win-win when we try. Even as we deal with our own fears and angers and difficulties, when we are willing to open a dialogue with ourselves, or with someone with whom we need more peace and take a deeper more curious, gentle look, we create new hope, new possibilities, new energy.
Doing these things shapes us for the better. Doing these things adds good vibes to the world. Doing these things adds to the collective good will in the world.
Some of us are called to do more, much more. But for most of us, we can help by being awake to ourselves, and taking a good action (even if its small) that will bring us better feelings about ourselves, and send good karma into the world. And maybe even create stepping stones for bigger change.