There are lots of ways these days to change. Lots of ways to gain insight, seek and find inner peace, love and meaning in life. Lots of ways to work with our minds, our hearts, our spirit, our psyche. Our traumas, our relationships. In the world of therapy there are lots of initials - CBT, DBT, EMDR, ACT (a personal favorite of mine). There are so many tools we have access to: mindfulness, writing, meditation, reading, somatic work, yoga, exercise, prayer. So much more. So many twelve step programs. So many therapies. So many ways to grow, to learn, to live. And they all have value. They all have so much to give us, to teach us, to help move us along toward better feelings, better experiences in life, better relationships, connections and ideas.
I continue to be an eager student of what comes my way. I continue to welcome and seek new ideas, and old ideas that resurface and reinvigorate and recycle just when I seem to have need of them. And I marvel that in the vast sea of Internet and media, so much is so accessible, so easily.
Over the years, though, and through all my training and experience, both personally and professionally, it still seems to me, that one of the most important, most essential healing elements is to have the experience of not being alone in our
story. Of being understood. Simply, truly, quietly, authentically.
Even when we work with skill based approaches, or philosophically based approaches, value based approaches, we are working with the idea that while the work is ours alone to take responsibility for, to practice, to expand from and with, that we are not always alone. We can have company in our unique story. We can know as we learn that the reason these ideas and experiences and therapies exist is that somehow, somewhere, someone, more than someone, understands what we are going through. That no matter how unique our circumstances or our particular story is, we are not as alone as we feel sometimes. And in the age of extreme media, and diminishing personal contact, and while we are learning and practicing and experiencing new methods, new ideas, new ways to work with our minds, its so vital to remember that the basics of healing are found in sharing our stories and resonating with each other.
Sunday, September 27, 2015
In the Story With You
Labels:
Depression,
Grace,
Gratitude,
hope,
relationships,
Resources,
Therapy,
Unstuck
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